Category: Dating Adventures

• July 27, 2025

  Haikuing Whether I Should Have Kids

  

  Perimenopause. Is it too late for children?Choices I face now.  Before, no freedom.Now, paradox of choices.And… microplastics.  Every stores’ itemsWill some day join a landfill.But: independence.  What is legacy? My great-grandmother’s choices.Do they continue  Through me or do IStop because I am afraid. Not from solitude  Or raising kids byMyself, which she did beforeHer kids were taken.  But…
• October 9, 2022

  The Dating Universe

  

  August, 2022 | Songdo, Incheon, Korea In 2022, meeting eligible single men for long-term, monogamous dating feels impossible, or as one friend phrased it, “like picking through trash.” As I claw through the dating apps, a popular if not absolutely necessary tool to navigate the ever-expanding dating universe, many modern Millennials have resigned from the…